tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post1247677312579855325..comments2023-05-30T10:24:52.304-05:00Comments on Cute Jewess Tells All: Cute Jewesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-76974424388373241252007-08-23T14:42:00.000-05:002007-08-23T14:42:00.000-05:00Nope, FG, doesn't cut it. Because the content--sex...Nope, FG, doesn't cut it. Because the content--sex too soon, guys lose interest, etc--is obvious. For an ice bucket, you need to come up with a revelation. <BR/><BR/>And my feelings weren't hurt--I was just calling out that you worded your comment like an asshole. Only usually I use the word douche.<BR/><BR/>I'm honest all the time--but not in a way that reflects poorly on myself.Cute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-43985261146461137332007-08-23T14:29:00.000-05:002007-08-23T14:29:00.000-05:00I know and I'm sorry. But think of me as the Ice C...I know and I'm sorry. But think of me as the Ice Cold Bucket of Reality. I am willing to sacrifice your feelings--and your impression of me--on the altar of intellectual honesty and empowerment. I truly want to help you figure this out, even if it means being sharp at times.<BR/><BR/>(And I love the word "douchily"!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-8919932387123953262007-08-23T09:46:00.000-05:002007-08-23T09:46:00.000-05:00Actually, nevermind. I reread your comment, and ye...Actually, nevermind. I reread your comment, and yes, I'm saying that's the case with your comment. Is the content objectionable? No. But it's said totally douchily.Cute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-67374062845393950822007-08-23T09:37:00.000-05:002007-08-23T09:37:00.000-05:00Ugh. "No offense" is a pet peeve of mine. It basic...Ugh. "No offense" is a pet peeve of mine. It basically says: "I'm going to say whatever I want however I want to, but I'll qualify it so you don't think I'm a douche." I'm not saying that's the case with your comment--just my general feeling about "No offense."<BR/><BR/>Also, duh. Every woman knows not to have sex too soon. That's not some rare font of advice. To me, BS seemed to be one of the 1.4% of good guys. And my track record of finding those guys/judging their character has been pretty good. Everyone has an off day, though, when it comes to character judgment.Cute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-11960131652448452402007-08-23T09:21:00.000-05:002007-08-23T09:21:00.000-05:00"Is he just not that into me?"Um, probably not. Ho..."Is he just not that into me?"<BR/><BR/>Um, probably not. How old did you say you were? And you've been dating guys for how long?<BR/><BR/>No offense*, honey, but the guy's already banged you, so the fun's over for him. His emotional deflation is completely in line with 98.6% of guys. You need to focus on finding the 1.4% of the MEN, who don't operate this way. Here's a hint: Don't have sex so soon.<BR/><BR/>*"You know, for a minute there I was offended. But then you said, "No offense," so now everything is cool." - Artie Lange in <I>Beer League</I>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-85826692352597660252007-08-22T18:23:00.000-05:002007-08-22T18:23:00.000-05:00Hmmm. This should not come as a surprise. After th...Hmmm. This should not come as a surprise. After the conquest, guys know you expect a relationship, so they don't want to lead you on. (How kind of them!)<BR/><BR/>I quote you to you. You wrote this several days ago: "But right now I'm not sweating it. I'm not sure this is the guy I want to have a relationship with, marry, etc. etc."<BR/><BR/>And yet now you are worrying you like him more than he likes you.<BR/><BR/>Sorry, 'cuz I know what that's like.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-86616114681116923222007-08-22T15:27:00.000-05:002007-08-22T15:27:00.000-05:00He's probably not into PDA.He's probably not into PDA.jgohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11541730917508702181noreply@blogger.com