tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post1520776244640811653..comments2023-05-30T10:24:52.304-05:00Comments on Cute Jewess Tells All: Cute Jewesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-73136283157550822852008-04-22T15:00:00.000-05:002008-04-22T15:00:00.000-05:00I think as girls who are dating in the city we ten...I think as girls who are dating in the city we tend to be very pessimistic about men. I sometimes feel this way in my relationship. That is when i send a text saying “are we ok"? He usually responds with "yes" and “ why.” That opens the line of communication. My point is don't create a preemptive strike when you don't really know what’s going on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-87335931358809371462008-04-22T14:22:00.000-05:002008-04-22T14:22:00.000-05:00Hugs!!!Hugs!!!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06070555643995889723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-61897390816484504732008-04-22T13:57:00.000-05:002008-04-22T13:57:00.000-05:00I'm somewhere between Anonymous and SingleGirl - b...I'm somewhere between Anonymous and SingleGirl - best to take your mind off it and take care of yourself, yet don't get ahead of yourself in the doomsday department either. What if you just straight out ask him what he's thinking (without being all dramatic about it)?Dating Trooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16295405140701372825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-16575393463309248332008-04-22T13:35:00.000-05:002008-04-22T13:35:00.000-05:00I just don't understand all of the despair! Why do...I just don't understand all of the despair! Why do you think things are headed so downhill? Because he isn't as attentive? But you say he has reasons for this? I'm confused!!Single Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086083144619394134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-13344907622969088192008-04-22T13:00:00.000-05:002008-04-22T13:00:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry. I hate it when you can feel a relat...I'm so sorry. I hate it when you can feel a relationship dying. <BR/><BR/>You won't like this this but I think you should make plans for this weekend that don't include him. Get out of town, leave your phone with a friend and don't check your email.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-20523844739081626292008-04-22T11:45:00.000-05:002008-04-22T11:45:00.000-05:00it's very, very hard to get oneself out of the hab...it's very, very hard to get oneself out of the habit of feeling that kind of dependence, but if the pattern recurs, then it must be broken. i wish i could tell you how to do it, how to break that dependence on phone calls, hearing from 'him,' whoever he may be, etc. or maybe the issue is this, how to make sure that such dependence is directed to a worthy object, which OS clearly is not. even if the habit can't be broken altogether, it can be minimized. it's always helpful to get angry...but if you can't, then try to stand back and think of other times you felt this way, and how you felt later, when you realized the guy was just not worth the trouble at all. OS was good fling material...but it's hard to categorize him that way at this point, i know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com