tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post8359322567174590648..comments2023-05-30T10:24:52.304-05:00Comments on Cute Jewess Tells All: Cute Jewesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-6872264765107796272008-03-12T14:07:00.000-05:002008-03-12T14:07:00.000-05:00Honestly, this is one of your more ridiculous post...Honestly, this is one of your more ridiculous posts in a long while. How is a guy supposed to know what you're going to think of his looks?! Haven't you ever e-mailed a good looking guy who seemed compatible, only to have your e-mail vanish into the ether with no response? Did you know he wouldn't like your pics when you sent the message? If you don't like someone who e-mails you, delete the message and make liberal use of the "block" button.<BR/>No guy with any self respect pauses to consider whether a girl thinks he is in her "league" before sending her a JDate e-mail.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-74132292409145268612008-03-10T17:53:00.000-05:002008-03-10T17:53:00.000-05:00FYI I might not publish more on the subject and sh...FYI I might not publish more on the subject and shall use my discretionCute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-57097612390928792122008-03-10T17:45:00.000-05:002008-03-10T17:45:00.000-05:00hey anon"Fixating" on someone so much younger? "O...hey anon<BR/><BR/>"Fixating" on someone so much younger? "Out of line"? "Guys like me"? Actually, since having children IS a criterion, I asked the question!<BR/><BR/>If you noticed, I spoke of someone up to 47 years old adn as young as 37 years old. CJ sid even 35 years old was reasonable. CJ said she doesn't like receiving requests from people who are too old, and since I don't want to write to people who aren't receptive to receiving my approaches because of MY age, not theirs, I asked the question.<BR/><BR/>Good luck in your search, anon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-75114521733787555272008-03-10T16:06:00.000-05:002008-03-10T16:06:00.000-05:00to the guy above, i think you are out of line by f...to the guy above, i think you are out of line by fixating on someone so much younger. why not have your main criterion be someone you are compatible with, not someone within a narrow age range. god forbid she be 4 years older. women lie about their age on dating sites because of guys like you. they become nothing but a number. unless you insist on having children, there is no reason to have age be any kind of criterion. and it is something women really hate, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-3143847893198556642008-03-10T12:57:00.000-05:002008-03-10T12:57:00.000-05:00I think you're fine with 10 years. Good luck!I think you're fine with 10 years. Good luck!Cute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-41357029656270229092008-03-10T12:26:00.000-05:002008-03-10T12:26:00.000-05:00CJ, I am not on any dating sites yet, but I'm 45, ...CJ, I am not on any dating sites yet, but I'm 45, male, in good shape and probably will join a dating site in about 3 months.<BR/><BR/>I certainly don't care wish to cause any discomfort - but after more than 2 decades of marriage I'm pretty new to this scene. What's your opinion about a reasonable age range for somebody like me to look into? I guess I'm looking for the "ew" factor. <BR/><BR/>It seems to me based on the profiles I've read that 12 years younger is pushing it but might still be OK in specific situations (such as divorced women with children, or women who are looking for men who are more established), 10 years might be ok but it's still pushing it for many women, especially for those without children who have never been divorced.<BR/><BR/>The "sweet spot" is probably about 8 years younger and up to 2 years older, so in my case, 37 to 47. Anything younger than these ages probably would only work for someone who's looking for a sugar-daddy situation, and that's not me.<BR/><BR/>Based on your sense alone, does this seem reasonable, or completely out of line? If so, what would you recommend?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-73051658252150982742008-03-09T20:32:00.000-05:002008-03-09T20:32:00.000-05:00back in january, a guy i found SO unattractive was...back in january, a guy i found SO unattractive was writing me -- i hated his moustache -- fortunately he was a 'never-married,' one of my 3 do-not-ever-date categories [others were republicans and smokers], so i didn't need to tell him how turned off i was by his looks. he had written an intelligent message and had read my profile carefully, so i felt i had to write him something, so i just emphasized the never-married and not the looks.... and yes, that happens often, the aspirational dating message....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-32058618924330514462008-03-09T17:04:00.000-05:002008-03-09T17:04:00.000-05:00CJ, if on the surface it sounds bitchy or bad of y...CJ, if on the surface it sounds bitchy or bad of you to make such judgements, it is not in reality. the whole process is set up as an impersonal and judgemental one. i'm sure a hundred guys are judging your pic/profile as much as you are judging theirs. (Beardy McWeirdy -- I love that!)<BR/><BR/>it is also very hard for people to perceive themselves as others do. these guys no doubt think they are normal, ordinary, regular, attractive guys -- when in fact they are delusional about that.<BR/><BR/>doctorsquared, i don't think the guys actually read. i think they look at the pictures only! your comment reminded me of one guy who contacted me, a medical doctor 15 years my senior who was married and had to stay married because they had a 10-year-old adopted daughter. his wife "didn't understand him" and so he wanted to conduct a meaningful affair. too bad for him that i "didn't understand him" either!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-25413851194019052072008-03-09T11:50:00.000-05:002008-03-09T11:50:00.000-05:00Considering this will likely be my go-to date purs...Considering this will likely be my go-to date purse, I was careful to avoid too much description or pics!Cute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-85378190304927266332008-03-09T10:03:00.000-05:002008-03-09T10:03:00.000-05:00picture of the new purse, pleeeeeeease? :)Oh, and ...picture of the new purse, pleeeeeeease? :)<BR/><BR/>Oh, and totally don't feel bad about the JDate thing, I felt the same way when I would get winks/emails on Match from A) really unattractive, B) really old, or C) STILL MARRIED! guys. Like, "Um, did you bother to read anything about me???"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-46666721085270476362008-03-08T15:28:00.000-05:002008-03-08T15:28:00.000-05:00I guess they figure that maybe they'll get lucky a...I guess they figure that maybe they'll get lucky and you'll give them a chance! Who knows what their reasoning is! Same thing happens at bars and I just want to be like, Seriously? Do you really think you and I are going to happen? I don't want to be rude, but at the same time I don't want to waste the guy's time or my time. At least online there isn't really any time wasted! <BR/><BR/>Congrats on the new find!! Those are always so exciting, especially since outlet shopping is so hit or miss.Single Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086083144619394134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-16149382445149209492008-03-07T20:09:00.000-05:002008-03-07T20:09:00.000-05:00Thanks Cara, I do miss my sweet baby so much still...Thanks Cara, I do miss my sweet baby so much still. Yes, yes, I will get another cat. And I hope soon. It's ridick how much I loved my little buddy.Cute Jewesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14622760467408448118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34297047.post-19960937873595273812008-03-07T20:03:00.000-05:002008-03-07T20:03:00.000-05:00Re first paragraph, don't feel bad about that. I h...Re first paragraph, don't feel bad about that. I have had worse thoughts, such as:<BR/><BR/>"blaady 'ell, is my stock as wife material reducing?"<BR/><BR/>or <BR/><BR/>"What on earth makes such a gorilla think he has a chance with me?"<BR/><BR/><BR/>PS: Hey CJ, I was the one who commented about your dead kitty cat and asked you to consider doing an 'in memory' post about your late feline friend.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Do you think you will ever get another cat? No, of course not to replace the previous one, but just because they are soooooooo cool and amazing.<BR/><BR/>*hugs*<BR/><BR/>CaraCarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14066564315692841923noreply@blogger.com