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Friday, May 16, 2008

First--you got it, I'm still asking you to hold your tongues--things may not be over with OS. He said he'd call me to hang out. Let's see if he does. I'm more aware of his flaws now, and I'm further removed from those giddy first couple weeks, so I'm going to see how it feels to date him non-exclusively. If he actually calls, that is.

One or Other? Well, he wasn't as dashing as his best pic--which I expected. But he was also cuter than his worst pics. And so I will call him Between :-) 'Tween and I actually had a very nice date. He told me I looked better in person--definitely a confidence booster--and he seemed to greatly enjoy my company. He's a charming guy, and although he knows it, I think he might also be a decent guy. We had a nice kiss goodnight, he asked if I'd like to go on a second date, and I said I would.

I was feeling nice and even-keeled about him. I wasn't dying for the 2nd date, but it was something to look forward to.

But then he didn't call!

It's only been a few days, but usually the ones who want the 2nd date get in touch a day or two later. I still think he'll call, but--sneaky dude--the fact that he hasn't has me thinking more about him.

So to be continued on the Between front!

5 comments:

Adorable said...

Sounds like now he's 'tween cool and douchey. He better start choosing better adventures for himself. Maybe he didn't call because of the weekend interceding? Some people are weird about taking the initiative on weekends, as if they seem less cool for calling you on a Saturday afternoon than on a Monday night. Dumb, but true.

mimi of 'sexagenarian and the city' said...

someone once quoted to me the following lines, considered to be the beginning of an 'unfinishable limerick' --

There was an old man so obscene
He would chortle at words like 'between'...

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Best Friend said...

Perhaps in between is just playing it cool, or is just laying in wait for the right time...you have any more J Dudes to go out with in your little J-purse of J-Men? Then in between won't seem to be on your mind so much...

Glenn said...

"He's a charming guy, and although he knows it, I think he might also be a decent guy."

Which to you is more important: Charming or Decent? Or does a guy have to be both? Curious.

Anonymous said...

Where have you gone? Hope everything is okay....