Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Here I am saying thank you again--this time for your thoughtful welcome backs! So many people have emailed me saying that weird as it sounds, they feel like they know me. Hmmm, could it be because I have such a shoddy filter between my thoughts and my keyboard? Y'all have been in my head for a few months there!

So it should be no surprise to you that I'm still thinking: Friggin' contact me, SS! He's been logging on to Jdate but not emailing me about a 4th date. I initiated the last email, without much of a correspondence resulting. Last week we're laughing and smooching, and this week...we're nothing? I don't get it. And this whole waiting thing makes me want to throw tennis balls at him. It's not as mean as it sounds--I have a really crappy arm.

The good news? So far correspondences with Hottie1 and Hottie2 have been going well. We're due for phone calls sometime soon. I confess: I'm a little intimidated by these guys. Especially Hottie1--because of his extreme hottieness. Don't get me wrong--I do have a healthy self-image. I quite like me! And I'm thrilled to say that as of last week, I'd reached my goal weight. So I'll hope to keep off those pesky 3-5 lbs, feeling fit and sexy! But still--really hot guys make me nervous. Scratch that. Really hot and smart and funny and successful guys make me nervous. The ones that are just hot I usually don't have much interest in (remember the Venezuelan?).

I mean, I'm not nervous enough to kick the fellas to the curb or anything...I just hope I'll be able to be myself during our phone conversations. You know how I get!!

--Cute Jewess (V2.0)


Loverville said...

Good luck with the Hottie twins! Keep 'em coming!

and WOW, you go girl, reaching your goal weight! (not that you needed to lose weight...anyway...)

You've inspired me! I've dropped of the weight loss wagon (too many dinners out this week), but am jogging back on!

As I watch Celebrity Fit Club... I love bad TV!

Cute Jewess said...

Well, LV, that was last week. If I had to guess, I'd say I put on a couple this week. But I'll find out tomorrow at the gym!

Heather said...

Oh CJ, CJ! I really wish these guys would get their acts together for you. Making me mad! Grrr!

You have nothing to worry about, you've had enough practice now that I think you will do just fine over the phone or in person.

Good luck and keep us posted!


jgo said...


After you go on a date with someone (especially someone you were smooching on said date), shouldnt they CALL you to get in contact? I feel like after contact like that, phone calls are really required. I always call the girls to ask them out subsequent times. Only after that do I switch to email for detail planning (if that is required). But I think the whole "I had a good time, let's go out again thing" should be done via phone. Am I too old fashioned?

Cute Jewess said...

Jgo, I'm fine with email--in the correspondence heirarchy, I say email's much better than texting. But I don't have any real rules about it.

But SS and I are beyond the "I had a good time, let's go out again thing." That's what's so frustrating. I mean, we've had 3 dates, buddy. It's not okay to just not contact me for this long.

nef said...


If ss doesn't call it's for one reason only. He cleverly hidden his retardation from you thus far. SS will now stand for Semi Simian.

You have no lack of dates, charm, humor, or cuteness. (i mean, it's in your name!) The problem is with him!