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Thursday, April 26, 2007

I almost caved and emailed SS.

But I had asked the Shrink for his advice, and he said not to do it, so I'm not going to. His advice is usually spot on. I started seeing El Shrinko to help get over the FAF, and to try to figure out if I did the right thing by not marrying him. I'm now sure that I did. Not just because I'm dating again, but because I saw the FAF recently--and things are just plain how they should be with him.

Anyhoo, I had a point. So, if the reason I went to the Shrink is resolved...do I stay in therapy? For now, I'm going to. I'm still navigating a new life-situation, and it helps to have someone to talk to about it in Acual Life Land. I do think I'm pretty darn well-adjusted, with a healthy self-image, blah blah blah. But we all have our momentary lapses.

So here I am not emailing SS.

Hottie1 has my phone number. He better freakin' use it.

--Cute Jewess

7 comments:

Tbone said...

You must make a list of reasons why you did not marry FAF. I broke up with a man I was seeing for over 10 years and now I think I made the biggest mistake of my life...but then I think of the reasons why I left him...but I am still torn. As for SS, guys don't think like girls do...we are neurotic and expect things from when that we would do...but guys are from a different planet...he may very well be busy with something...

Single Girl said...

I say stay in therapy if you want to, even if it's not for the original reason you started going. I started about a year ago and really enjoy it. It feels so good to go somewhere and talk to someone who knows about relationships, people, etc. and just talk all about yourself for an hour without having to reciprocate. I always leave feeling great and with new insights.

Guys don't make sense, do they? I agree with tbone, he may very well be busy with something, and if not, it's definitely his loss!

Jody said...

SS seems like a player, keep busy with dating other guys and the rest of your life.

a&v said...

Yes, not contacting SS is the right (thought difficult) thing. Don't guys know that buy not contacting us they make themselve more desireable than they otherwise might be? (yes, I think they do) Although, how can you beat sexy and smart? Grr. Fingers crossed for Hottie1!

Cute Jewess said...

Nope, not to me! I would like SS just as much--or likely more!--if he were more into getting in touch.

Loverville said...

Good call on the therapy -- I often start my Shrink session thinking I have nothing to talk about that day... then I'm surprised five minutes in: "oh YEAH, I forgot about that issue... thanks for the reminder!"

acaligurl said...

if shrink man is keeping ya kewl then its good to see him for a bit.