Sunday, April 27, 2008

Just a quick update, since many of you are nice enough to care about what's going on. Things remain in limbo with OS. It's confusing and uncertain right now, so more when I sort some stuff out, talk to him more, and make some decisions. Am I still upset about it? Yes. I haven't been thrown for a loop like this by a guy since college, believe it or not.

But if things do continue with OS, I know we'll be seeing other people. So I reconnected with Hair, from a while back, and we've got a date set up for tomorrow night.

That's part of the beauty of Jdate, I'll admit. When you feel like you really want a date, you can usually get a date.

Hair seems sweet, he's offered to come to my neighborhood (you know how I like that!), and so we'll see...

--Cute Jewess


Anonymous said...

I am sorry you are upset but I think it is odd to say things are in limbo with OS. Because I can guarantee that by summer he will not be a part of your life. If you think things are going to resolve so that you will happily be his girlfriend, I predict that won't happen. Sorry, but just being objective here.

Cute Jewess said...

Yes, because obviously "in limbo" and I have to "make some decisions" means that I think he'll be my best boyfriend ever and we'll live happily ever after.

Come on now. Wait until you've got the information before you dole the "Sorry but just being objective" advice folks.

Anonymous said...

C.J. what is the object of all this dating? is it to subject yourself to emotional abuse from jerks or to find a good guy you can be happy with permanently?

Cara said...

Awww, that's not a very nice question. I think its quite obvious that she's dating so she can find a decent guy that she can be with and love long term in a committed relationship.

What she is doing is no different from what millions of other women are doing.