Thursday, August 16, 2007

I made the right decision.

But I'll tell you, walking home last night, I couldn't get Smooch Boy out of my mind. He was there for the taking. I could have called him up, said--screw it, lets get a drink--and seen where the night would take us. Plus, I thought about how I've only been on 2 dates each with BS and CG. If I'm going to fool around with Smoochy, it should be sooner rather than later!

But then I thought about how much sweeter BS and CG are. How thinking about them makes me smile. How if I fooled around with Smoochy, it would be 3 guys in one week. I thought about how I'd feel if I slept with one guy while liking two others. It wasn't going to work for me.

Later that night, Car Guy sent me a text saying simply, "Goodnight, Angel." This morning, Big Smile emailed just to say hi.

I know CG's planning a super special date for this weekend. I'm still waiting for BS to cement our plans for next week, but I'm not too worried. These are good guys, I think.

Ugh. I haven't been able to get to the gym for longer than I'm comfortable with. I'm trying to get there during lunch today--something I never do. I'm thinking if I write it on the blog, though, that'll motivate me to get my lunchtime ass in gear! After all, I've got at least one hot date this weekend ;-)

Update: What an f-ing great workout! I rock :)

--Cute Jewess


sexagenarian and the city said...

reminds me of my inner debate about man1 on 28 june. i made the same decision you did [not to, because i liked someone else better, in my case 1 person]. explaining, sort of, to man1 on the phone was not easy, but it was good blog material! the farther away i got in time from the decision, the more confident i was that it was the right one. you'll prob feel the same way.

belle said...

OK, I have a question. Call it a spark for debate or whatever.

That's incredibly sweet that he texted you, angel. Really sweet. And I get the whole dating many guys at once thing, I really do. I kind of get the make-out with more boys than once thing. I know how it is.

But, in comparison, how would you feel if he was texting 3 other girls "goodnight angel" at the same time? Is this the same guy that knows you are seeing other people? Do you know if they are too?

Cute Jewess said...

They might be seeing other women, I'm not sure. At this point, I'm not going to concern myself with it. And yes, he's the same guy who knows I'm seeing other people. He says "None of my business."

At some point, if I want to know if they're seeing other women, then I'll ask.

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Best Friend said...

I thought Smoochy was just that, for smooching and making out. But if you like others, and this is your guts talking, then go head.

jgo said...

What is needed to make a relationship happen? Among other things you need two people who are both interested and into each other. Even if you are each dating multiple people, the relationship never would happen unless the two people choose each other. The way I see it, dating around doesnt really impede things when two people are meant to be together and are drawn to each other.