Yesterday, it became obvious to me that SS likes me. He enjoys my company. He's looking forward to seeing me again. I was not crazy when I thought we both had fun on our dates. And yet...well...I'm not sure he's ever going to call or email me as much as I'd like. And by "as much" trust me, I don't expect a lot. I talked about him with the Shrink, and Shrink says he, too, thinks that SS is interested. But he's shy, and kind of a loner. He doesn't seem to be someone who enters relationships easily--or even perhaps comfortably. So, this I know now. And we'll see what happens when I see SS again.
Hottie2 wound up behaving like a dick by canceling our date for a third time with little or no notice. With the first two? He called and offered what seemed like sincere regret and apologies. I thought for sure he wouldn't cancel this time. But he did. By text. I have not texted back. If he calls with a really good excuse, I will not be unreasonable. But nuh-uh, homey. You don't get to text a quick "sorry" and expect me to reply to that bullhooey.
Hottie1 has not gotten in touch since our lovely phone conversation the other night. He seemed interested--but he also seems really busy. So far I really like this guy. We have a lot in common, and he plays it straight. I will hope he gets in touch again. And if I don't hear from him in a week or so, I would feel comfortable emailing him.
There are a few more guys on the horizon. But I'm not sure yet if they merit mentions! We'll see.